Dec 21, 2013
As part of our commitment to opening up to love, we need to look at our environments. So many people, when they are single, are living in cold, unwelcoming environments, waiting for someone to come along so that they can escape! We need to create an environment representing the future we are committed to creating with a partner. What we are doing here is symbolic, even if we are living in a small space or somewhere that we don’t...
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Nov 21, 2013
We have all heard the idea of loving ourselves first in order to love and be loved by another. Yet how many of us are truly engaged in the practice of being loving and kind to ourselves? Being completely loving and kind to ourselves no matter what, being committed to tend to and to express our own needs and desires and show up for ourselves is the foundation required to draw in love and relationship. Here's what so many of us do: ...
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Nov 21, 2013
Let's talk about the prospect of being vulnerable. For years I thought it was a mortal sin to be vulnerable. I went around saying that people who were vulnerable were weak. The truth was that I was terrified of being vulnerable. And I had good reason to be. When I was a child it wasn't safe to be vulnerable. Many of us have had experiences in childhood and beyond that have made it feel unsafe and terrifying to be vulnerable in life. These...
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Nov 21, 2013
Now that we know what radiance is, how do we become more radiant? We take the risk to stop being invisible. It’s starting to look at what are my beliefs about myself being beautiful and radiant? Have the courage to stop hiding. Ask yourself: Am I hiding? Is there more to express in me? What are my passions? What is my vision for my life? What do I have to contribute to others? What do I have to contribute...
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Nov 21, 2013
When we make the commitment to do what it takes for love, we become totally self-responsible for our own lives. This means that we give up blaming men or women. We give up blaming ourselves. We give up blaming our parents or our upbringing and we give up blaming God. Instead, we decide that from hereon in, we are going to be responsible for what we create in our lives and we start to look at our part in our past experiences. This does...
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